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"All You Have To Do Is..."
"It's so easy!" "Oh... silly... anyone can do that!" "Why do you need help?" And, my favorite one: "All you have to do is... blah, blah, blah." Every video you see on social media is the painstaking result of countless takes, hours of editing, and that's after all the prep that goes into any posting. They make it look easy. But if you've ever tried some dance moves from online, bent yourself into that yoga pose, or done any DIY projects around the house after searching YouTub
terry4066
1 day ago2 min read


Unprecedented: That word makes my eyes roll and my stomach turn
Terms come and go. Back in the 1980s, we were all talking about our paradigms and how important they were to having a life worth living. The term is still used today, but not nearly as much. The term unprecedented has been used in conjunction with global warming, economics, the actions of world leaders, and pretty much any seemingly unsolvable issues. But are they really unprecedented? History tells us “no.” Let’s look at primarily American issues. First, let’s take immigra
terry4066
3 days ago4 min read


Empathy: Did you know it can be toxic?
Empathy is one quality that allows us to help one another. As a counselor and tantric sex therapist, this asset is crucial to my work....
terry4066
Oct 33 min read


Othering: How criticism of who we are negates who we were meant to be
Othering is suggesting or demanding that we act differently from the way we feel compelled to present ourselves. The idea of othering is...
terry4066
Sep 243 min read


Being Average: Why it has a bad rap and how we can make it work in our favor
Let me start by saying I’m not about “settling” for anything, nor do I feel we should sit back and wait for the universe to send our...
terry4066
Sep 23 min read


Feeling Frustrated or Depressed?
Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay I got it. More of my clients are feeling it. I’d be surprised if you weren’t, too… at least...
terry4066
Aug 163 min read


Heartbroken – Why this is a real thing and what we can do if it happens to us
(This blog posting summarizes a recent article by Rebekah Brandes , as published in Nice News . To read Brandes’ original article, see:...
terry4066
Jul 253 min read


The Obligation of Doing: Balancing Responsibility and Freedom
We all have responsibilities. Our job, family obligations, or health conditions might require us to do certain things. We also crave...
terry4066
Jul 164 min read


Why I Decided to Give My Website a Fresh Makeover... and What Happened Next
In today's fast-paced digital landscape, standing out online is more important than ever. But as I neared my last birthday, understanding...
terry4066
Jun 114 min read
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