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    Tantra Dad, Your Erotic MENtor

    My Background and My Approach

    Find it hard as a guy to express your emotions or be vulnerable with another man? I get that. Letting it all go with a guy you can TRUST is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. Few men have a confidante, another man with whom they can share their darkest fears and greatest dreams. I CAN BE THAT FOR YOU. Ready to explore your vulnerability with a man you can rely on? You may find younger, hot guys with whom you’ll find less experience, for which you’ll be charged far more than I do. With them, you may pay a lot more, but with me, you’ll get more than you paid for. I see you, and I care about every man I work with.
     

    I’m a mature man who’s lived a great life. Along the way, I’ve learned a thing or two about understanding how difficult it can be to be a man in the world we live in.


    Most of us have been taught there’s only one place at the top, and that’s where we should be striving to be. In the process, we’re feared, envied, and praised by others for walking over every other man who dares to get in our way.  Is it any wonder why we find it hard as a guy to express our emotions or be vulnerable with another man?

    Yes, I’m 70. The pictures of me online are recent, all taken in the past year, and they’ll all be replaced when I turn 71. I’m so over meeting a professional in person or online only to find out that his pictures were taken decades ago.

    I’m a tantric sex therapist with over thirty years of experience. I’ve been blessed to have the group guidance of schools like The Body Electric and Tantra for Gay Men (T4GM), the latter with whom I’ve completed all five of their seven-day, residential diploma programs. I’m also a voracious reader.

    My training also includes workshops, trainings, and residential programs with some of the other professionals in this area of helping men who love men, regardless of how we identify ourselves by orientation or preference. Finally, some of my best teachers are the thousands of men I’ve served and taught over the years as clients and students.

    Besides having a successful career in tantric sex therapy, I’ve had a number of long-term, varied careers in which I’ve utilized a doctorate in holistic theology, a master’s in social work, and the various licenses that go along with the work. My personal and business travels have found me in all fifty states in the U.S., plus over twenty foreign countries.

    Where do you go from here? Keep reading more in this section. Google your ass off to find out all the different flavors and techniques that tantra offers you. And, if you’re up for it, maybe schedule a free, no-obligation Discovery Call with me to see how we might work together.
     

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